It is time to go to bed. Homework is not done. It is close to my bed time. I insist that the kids go to bed at a certain time. They resist. They do not want to go to bed. Right now, they are stalling. I will not fall for it. They need to do their homework. They are not focused on it. They are too tired to do it. Not being disciplined has its consequences. Trying to get homework done at the last minute is not pleasurable for either of us.
If you don’t have rules in place, it is good to have them. If you have too many strict rules in place, then it becomes frustrating for both parties. When we have too much laxity it can be detrimental. Nothing gets done. It is important to teach kids to be capable, productive, competent, and whole.
I believe getting enough sleep is important for the kids to have a good day at school. It is also important for parents to get good sleep. To also set a good example. If we are not disciplined and don’t get adequate sleep we will not be very effective. It is cool to be in bed on time. It makes a world of difference across the board.