Whenever, things go wrong, I try to think of how others would be if I was not around. Another way to look at this, is to ask what can I contribute? How can I add value?
Giving without being asked to give, is something I like to do. Whenever, I get down, I try to think of helping others. I also, remember what I am grateful for. There are so many ways to contribute.
It does not have to be some grand gesture. I am grateful to be alive. Spreading cheer where others are down, has been fun. I try not to be that person that is so happy that they get punched by the person who is having a bad day.
No matter what happens in my day, I try to remain positive. No matter what I say it is a great day. Why let someone or something ruin my day? It is a Wonderful Life. If you look around there are so many wonderful things and people, too.